RESOURCES

Resources for Protective Moms

When Coercive Control Continues to Harm Children: Post-Separation Fathering, Stalking and Domestic Violence

Emma Katz

https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/epdf/10.1002/car.2611


Custody, violence against women and violence against children

Report of the Special Rapporteur on violence against women and girls, its causes and consequences, Reem Alsalem

https://www.ohchr.org/en/documents/thematic-reports/ahrc5336-custody-violence-against-women-and-violence-against-children


From ‘Parental Alienation’ to [Abusers’] Child and Mother Sabotage [CAMS] as a preferable term for how perpetrator fathers intentionally sabotage the child-mother connection

https://www.shera-research.com/latest-news/from-parental-alienation-to-abusers-child-and-mother-sabotage-cams-as-a-preferable-term-for-how-perpetrator-fathers-intentionally-sabotage-the-child-mother-connection


Confronting the Challenge of High-Conflict Personality in Family Court

Santa Clara Law Study

https://www.npdandlaw.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/Confronting-the-Challenge-of-the-High-Conflict-Personality-in-Family-Court.pdf


Coercive Control, Domestic Violence, and a Five-Factor Framework: Five Factors That Influence Closeness, Distance, and Strain in Mother–Child Relationships

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/330958515_Coercive_Control_Domestic_Violence_and_a_Five-Factor_Framework_Five_Factors_That_Influence_Closeness_Distance_and_Strain_in_Mother-Child_Relationships


Men Who Abuse Women Use the Same Tactics as Pedophiles

https://www.independent.ie/irish-news/men-who-abuse-women-use-the-same-tactics-as-pedophiles-and-ive-never-met-one-who-wanted-to-change-says-author-of-how-he-gets-in-her-head/35681098.html

How Domestic Violence Perpetrators Manipulate Systems

https://safeandtogetherinstitute.com/how-domestic-violenceperpetrators-manipulate-systems/


Child Custody Outcomes in Cases Involving Parental Alienation and Abuse Allegations 

Joan Meier/George Washington Law

bit.ly/ChildCustodyOutcomes 


"But he didn’t hit you, did he?": Inside the coercive control courtroom

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2024/mar/23/but-he-didnt-hit-you-did-he-inside-the-coercive-control-courtroom


Post-Separation Abuse and the Devastation It Causes

https://dremmakatz.substack.com/p/post-separation-abuse-and-the-devastation


Gender bias in custody battles places women and children at risk

https://www.ohchr.org/en/stories/2023/06/gender-bias-custody-battles-places-women-and-children-risk


Discounting Women: Doubting Domestic Violence Survivors’ Credibility and Dismissing Their Experiences 

https://scholarship.law.georgetown.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=3055&context=facpub


Common Misconceptions in Addressing Domestic Violence in Child Custody Disputes

https://centerforjudicialexcellence.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/Common-Misconceptions-in-Addressing-DV-in-Child-Custody.pdf


All Abusers Are Not Equal: New IPV Research Reveals an Indicator of Deadly Abuse

https://www.strangulationtraininginstitute.com/all-abusers-are-not-equal-new-ipv-research-reveals-an-indicator-of-deadly-abuse

Child Custody Evaluators’ Beliefs About Domestic Abuse Allegations: Their Relationship to Evaluator Demographics, Background, Domestic Violence Knowledge and CustodyVisitation Recommendations [Saunders Study]

https://www.ojp.gov/pdffiles1/nij/grants/238891.pdf


Ensuring the Voice of the Child is Heard, and Child’s Best Interests are Considered in Domestic Abuse Cases

Safe & Together Institute

https://safeandtogetherinstitute.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/VoiceoftheChild.pdf


Domestic Abuse, Stalking and Harassment and Honor Based Violence [DASH 2009-2024]

Risk Identification and Assessment and Management Model 

https://static1.squarespace.com/static/63585aa01220164be2e387b2/t/65a82ce5e47f867b140872ed/1705520358604/DASH+2009+2024.pdf

Family Court Needs to be Reimagined 

https://custodypeace.medium.com/it-is-not-up-for-debate-family-court-needs-to-be-reimagined-just-ask-u-s-12373b25c7d9


The Family Court and Domestic Abuse: Achieving Cultural Change

https://domesticabusecommissioner.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/DAC_Family-Court-Report-_2023_Digital.pdf


Post-Separation Abuse 

www.postseparationabuse.com 


Coercive Control - Dr. Karen Williams

https://youtu.be/YbZYSBeHuLU

https://youtu.be/UOlO8eTViec


Monarch Consulting Group I Family Law Consultancy For Protective Moms

https://www.monarchconsultinggrp.com/

Trusted Professionals and Clinicians

Books


"It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People"

Doctor Ramani

https://amzn.to/49EDLqQ


"Should I Stay or Should I Go : Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist"

Doctor Ramani

https://amzn.to/4bQQzfj


"Don't You Know Who I Am?: How to Stay Sane in an Era of Narcissism, Entitlement, and Incivility" 

Doctor Ramani

https://amzn.to/438uqpb


"Truth and Repair: How Trauma Survivors Envision Justice"

Judith Herman

https://amzn.to/4bRJA5M


"Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men"

Lundy Bancroft

https://amzn.to/3SPX35v


"The Batterer as Parent: Addressing the Impact of Domestic Violence on Family Dynamics"

Lundy Bancroft

https://amzn.to/3STtUq9


"Run Like Hell: A Therapist's Guide to Recognizing, Escaping, and Healing from Trauma Bonds"

Doctor Nadine Macaluso

https://amzn.to/3woE8am


"Children of Coercive Control"

Evan Stark

https://amzn.to/3IdrvBN


"Coercive Control: How Men Entrap Women in Personal Life"

Evan Stark

https://amzn.to/3OY6I8Z


"Coercive Control in Children's and Mothers' Lives"

Emma Katz

https://amzn.to/3wuWJlk


"Hope Rising: How the Science of HOPE Can Change Your Life"

Casey Gwinn

https://amzn.to/3uPjK1N

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